Who’s In Your Power Corner?

The sports world has seen some incredibly gifted boxers over the past 100 years, such as James J. Braddock, Roberto Duran, Manny Pacquiao, Sugar Ray Leonard, Sugar Ray Robinson, Joe Louis, and of course the greatest of all time, Muhammad Ali. These championship fighters were a marvel in the “squared circle” with their skill, speed, and power.

Yet no matter how great they were in the ring, they didn’t fight alone. All of them had a team of people who were ready, willing, and able to provide encouragement, coaching, and care. Every championship boxer typically has at least three people in their corner for every fight:

  1. Trainer: Gives advice to the boxer on what he is doing wrong as well as encouraging him if he is losing. They remind the boxer during the fight of what they practiced during training sessions leading up to the fight. They point out weaknesses of the opponent and what the fighter can exploit to gain an advantage. They creatively and assertively push the fighter to go beyond what they may be feeling. Trainers help them get the most out of their natural talents.
  2. Cut Man: Every fighter understands they are going to get hit and potentially hurt. A cut man takes care of cuts between rounds to get the fighter ready for the next round. The cut man is invaluable to help them bounce back quickly from their injuries.
  3. Assistant Trainer: Provides support to the rest of the team by doing some of everything. They do the little things that often get overlooked or ignored. They supply much needed assistance with timely words or actions. They often don’t demand attention but they deserve a lot of credit, because they take care of certain things so you don’t have to.

We need people who can help us maximize our talents and skills, as well as influence us to go beyond where we want to stop. We need to have at least one person in our corner to help us bounce back quickly from our inevitable hurts and disappointments. We also need those invaluable people who may not often be seen or heard, but when we do it’s the right thing at the right time.

Every day you are in the fight of your life to fulfill your purpose and potential. No matter how good you are at what you do, you won’t achieve significant levels of success without a formal or informal team of people who support, encourage, comfort, mentor, train, and care for you.

Don’t try to be a solo act or “lone ranger”. You will only make it so far. Instead, rely on a “power corner” to help propel you to championship victories.

Who’s in your power corner? Whose power corner are you in?

Sweet dreams,
Paul Wilson, Jr.

*Note: ESPN has an interesting list of their 50 greatest fighters of all-time. Do you agree with their picks?

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6 BIG Dream Lessons from Cinderella Man

A couple nights ago I watched Cinderella Man with Russell Crowe for the first time (yeah, I know it came out 5 years ago). Especially considering the economic times that we currently live in, it was a truly empowering story of resilience, perseverance, courage, humility, and dignity in the face of overwhelming personal and financial challenges.

If you don’t already know, this movie was based on the true story of boxer James J. Braddock during the Great Depression. After injuries and age derailed a successful boxing career, prompting the boxing commission to revoke his license, he and his family fell on really hard times. With work hard to come by, he had to go on public assistance and almost lost his house and family. After two years out of the sport, a lucky break allowed him to get back into boxing on a one-fight deal, and he eventually ascended all the way to become  a most unlikely heavyweight champion of world. Joe Louis, one of the greatest boxers of all time, said Braddock was “the most courageous fighter I ever fought.

Here are 6 BIG Dream lessons that I gleaned from the movie…

  1. Your ultimate purpose is bigger than an individual goal – Fighting for a world championship is great. Fighting for your family is greater. His ultimate dream was to give his wife and three children a great life.
  2. Turn what’s broken into your benefit – Breaking his right hand allowed his left hand to get stronger so that when he made his comeback, he was a more complete boxer who could punch hard with both hands.
  3. Always remember what you’re fighting for – One of the best lines in the movie came when a reporter asked Braddock before the world championship fight what was his motivation for fighting. Braddock’s simple but profound answer was, “Milk.” The simple things in life can often be our biggest motivators.
  4. Stick to what you know best – He approached his profession seriously and was extremely confident – not cocky – in his skills. He worked hard to be the best and never quit. In all his fights he was never knocked out.
  5. Use where you come from to push you where you’re going – During his successful comeback, he always remembered what it was like to have nothing. He stayed humble throughout his ascension, because he realized how close he had come to losing everything and how easily he could fall back into that place.
  6. Stay focused on your family – No matter how difficult your life gets, never lose focus on the ones who are closest to you.

Don’t allow your challenges to cancel your dreams. If you want help turning your tragedy into triumph, join me at the Dream B.I.G. in 3D Live! Workshop on Saturday, April 17 in Marietta, GA. Click here to learn more.

What did you think about these points? How have you been able to overcome your challenges to pursue your dreams?

Sweet dreams,
Paul Wilson, Jr.


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